How to: Be more self-confident

HELLOOOO OCTOBER!
oh and hey everyone!

Today I want to help you.
Yes you.
I want to make you more confident with yourself.

Now I'm a person who normally is really self-confident but sometimes I get these moods where I hate everything about me.

So what do I do to get me out of these moods to feel self-confident again?

Step one: find a mirror

Step two: look into the mirror

Step three: focus on the positive things about you.

Now step three is the important step...okay I mean if you can't find a mirror then step three won't work either but you know what I mean haha

I want you to stand in front of the mirror and just look at yourself.

Look at yourself and feel free to be happy about some parts of your body.

Take me as an example:

Whenever I feel down because of my weight...yeah that happens sometimes and ten minutes later I sit down eating chocolate cause I was doing the mirror thing..anyways back to the point:

So whenever I feel down and I look into the mirror, I focus on the things I like about myself.

For example, I like my eyes.

So I focus on them..which can be creepy if you're standing in front of the mirror and staring into your own eyes like you're trying to creep the other person out..

It doesnt matter what you like about yourself, whether it's your eyes, your nose, your ears..there are some people with nice ears so why not haha
Or your hands, if you have nice hands then I'm happy for you!

What I'm trying to tell you in this chaos of letters is that you should stop focusing on the negative things about yourself.

Nobody is perfect.
Everyone has imperfections and that is good.

It would be so boring if everyone was perfect.

People make mistakes.
Just because you make mistakes, it doesn't mean that you're not allowed to be self-confident anymore.
Just because you like some parts of your body, it doesn't make you an arrogant person.

I'm a person who thinks that other people automatically focus on the negative things about myself, like I do.
But that's not true.
I've met so many people who were shy at the beginning and after a while they told me they hated their body or whatever...I don't know if I'm the only one here but I don't care about these things on others at all.

I don't focus on others imperfections.
I apreciate the positive things about them.

And if you learn to see it that way, the way that everyone in this world is walking around with imperfections..then I hope you will stop focusing on yours because you don't care about theirs either, am I right?

I hope I helped you a little bit...if not then tell me so I can just try it again.
Maybe the mirror thing only works for me, who knows

Anyways!

I wish you great start in October :) x